Man Finds Birth Mother and Uncovers His Family’s Unbelievable Past

<p>Man finds birth mother and uncovers his family&rsquo&semi;s unbelievable past&period; Air Force Colonel Bruce Hollywood always knew he&rsquo&semi;d been adopted&period; His Asian features clearly didn&rsquo&semi;t come from his parents&comma; who were of European descent&period; And in fact&comma; his parents had always been upfront with him about having adopted him back in the 1960s in Japan&period; But despite encouragement from his adoptive mother&comma; he had never felt the desire to meet his biological parents&period; That all changed after one event in his mid-40s&comma; an event which would trigger a globe-crossing search and lead to discoveries he&rsquo&semi;d never dare to imagine&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Our story has a frightening beginning&period; One early morning in 2005&comma; Air Force Colonel Bruce Hollywood was getting out of his car in the Pentagon parking lot&comma; like he did every morning&period; Suddenly&comma; he felt a sharp pain in his chest and fell to the ground&period; As he lay on the ambulance&rsquo&semi;s stretcher&comma; he thought&comma; « This is where it ends&period; » During his recovery&comma; he realized he had two regrets in life&period; The first was that he wouldn&rsquo&semi;t be able to help his son get into college&comma; and the second was that he never made the effort to speak to and thank the Japanese woman who gave birth to him&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Colonel Bruce Hollywood had been adopted as a baby by an American couple stationed in Japan&period; The two believed they could offer him a better life than his mother would have been able to&period; Before his heart attack&comma; Bruce said he never felt like something was missing&period; His parents were amazing&comma; and he never felt like he needed to reflect on his adoption&period; He always knew he was adopted because he had Asian features and his father was an Irishman and his mother was a Norwegian lady&period; The adoption was no secret to him&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>After recovering from his heart attack&comma; Bruce set out to find his birth mother&period; He reached out to the Japanese embassy and even hired a private detective&comma; but his search was unsuccessful&period; Just as he was ready to give up&comma; a chance encounter at an airport bar would change everything&period; While waiting for his flight&comma; he struck up a conversation with Admiral Harry Harris&comma; who happened to have a Japanese mother&period; The two quickly realized they had a lot in common&comma; and Bruce shared his desire to find his birth mother&period; To his surprise&comma; Admiral Harris said he could help&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Ten days later&comma; Bruce received a phone call from the Japanese embassy telling him they had found his mother&period; Excited&comma; Bruce wanted to write a letter to express his happiness and gratitude&comma; but the embassy employee said there wouldn&rsquo&semi;t be a letter&period; Instead&comma; his mother would call him directly&comma; despite her limited English&period; When the call came&comma; Bruce&rsquo&semi;s mother cried as he spoke to her through an interpreter&period; It was an emotional conversation that revealed the depth of their connection&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Bruce traveled to Japan to meet his birth mother&comma; and he discovered the truth about his birth and adoption&period; His mother&comma; Nobu&comma; had gotten pregnant with him after a romance with an American soldier&period; The soldier had promised to marry her&comma; but he was deployed back to the US before their paperwork went through&period; When he finally called months later&comma; Nobu didn&rsquo&semi;t trust him and refused to take the call&period; Nobu&rsquo&semi;s father offered to support her&comma; but she made the difficult decision to give Bruce up for adoption&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>During his visits to Japan over the next three years&comma; Bruce and Nobu developed a close relationship&period; Nobu even visited Bruce in Washington&comma; and they both made efforts to learn each other&rsquo&semi;s languages&period; Nobu had named her restaurant Bruce after her son&comma; based on the name given to him by his adoptive parents&period; Their reunion had a profound impact on Bruce&comma; who finally embraced his Japanese-American heritage&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Bruce&rsquo&semi;s adoptive parents had given him a photo of Nobu before they returned to America&comma; and she had kept it all those years&period; It was clear that Nobu had never forgotten and had always hoped for their reunion&period; While the search for his birth mother had been successful&comma; Bruce&rsquo&semi;s biological father remained a mystery&period; Nobu had given Bruce a note with his father&rsquo&semi;s name&comma; Lewis Bazaar&period; Curiosity led Bruce to search for his father&comma; and through DNA testing and online platforms&comma; he discovered his half-brother&comma; Louis Bazaar Jr&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Bruce reached out to Louis&comma; and they soon realized the connection between their parents&period; It turned out that Bruce&rsquo&semi;s father had been stationed in Japan&comma; where he and Nobu had fallen in love&period; However&comma; they were separated when Louis Sr&period; was ordered to return to the US&period; After his return&comma; he promised to call Nobu but never did&period; The timing&comma; coupled with Nobu&rsquo&semi;s distrust&comma; led her to believe Lewis couldn&rsquo&semi;t be trusted&period; Bruce and Louis agreed to be brothers&comma; bringing closure to their family&rsquo&semi;s complex and intertwining story&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Finding his birth mother and discovering his family&rsquo&semi;s past had a profound impact on Bruce&period; It gave him a newfound sense of identity as a Japanese-American&period; Bruce became actively involved in the Japanese-American community&comma; serving on boards and advocating for his heritage&period; The reunion also brought closure to unanswered questions and gave him a sense of peace&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The story of Colonel Bruce Hollywood&rsquo&semi;s search for his birth mother is truly remarkable&period; It shows the power of determination and the incredible connections we can make when we least expect it&period; And for Bruce&comma; his journey brought him a sense of belonging and pride in his heritage&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;

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